Friday, 24 March 2017

HEALTH IS WEALTH





Wealth is a combination of having enough money for one’s needs, the ability to enjoy that money, be an active contributor to society that society would look up to, be able to have and sustain a meaningful network of friends and family that contributed to wholesome experiences…etc. It was about the ability of a person to function as a happy, effective individual, who was able to make most decisions out of a sense of freedom, rather than compulsion.

Health was seen as the primary driver that helped create such a world for oneself. Money means nothing when it doesn’t afford you the time and means to spend it on yourself and your loved ones. Staying healthy therefore becomes a necessity.
When we are ill or we do not want to play or work, our bad health robs us of sound sleep and appetite. Life becomes a burden for one, who is constantly ailing. Life has little charm for him. He feels tired of life, always complaining about one thing or the other.

Wealth is the ability to know what your purpose in life is, ability to have meaningful relationships with those around you, ability to solve problems that come your way, being fed and having shelter, being grateful for all that you have in life, having enough money to get by, and when you are healthy, you get to have more joy in your life, you can experience new things and you can grow, that is why health is wealth.
Health is a wealth in and of itself, you have a human body, it carries you everywhere and you interact with people with it, right? So, if you take care of your body, then experiencing things such as sex, driving, eating and all other fun things become more enjoyable.
If you don’t take care of yourself, then stress and other diseases make simple things unbearable.

Listed below are some important tips on how to stay healthy;

 



TIPS FOR HEALTHY LIVING:

  • Breakfast Is A Must
Never skip breakfast, our metabolic rate decreases leading to weight gain and digestion problems. Breakfast increases concentration, helps us focus better and controls weight.
  • Apply Caution To The Food 
Avoid unhealthy food that is high in calories. They gradually take a toll on your health leading to weight gain, heart diseases and cholesterol. Eat seasonal fruits that are rich in fibers, vitamins and proteins. Nobody asks you ban those delicious desserts all together at every beginning. But a little moderation at the beginning can ensure that you never reach the stage where you can’t have it anymore. Make it a point to eat healthy stay healthy.
  • Avoid Mindless Eating
You are hungry, you eat. You are bored, you eat. You are angry, you eat. And you are lazy to do your chores, you eat again. Unless otherwise you have plans of getting shifted to a hospital permanently, DON’T do this. Eat when you are hungry as simple as that. Your stomach isn’t a dump-yard in which you can allow your emotional appetite to dispose its junk cravings. Eat only when you are hungry make sure to take healthy food you only. Eating just because food is there stacked inside the fridge, and that too being completely oblivious of what you are eating, can be dangerous.

  • Washing your hands
Hand sanitizer's were invented for a reason. If your hands are dirty, you clean them. But after that you STOP. You have to continually wash your hands regularly and repeatedly. Research says that limited germ exposure is actually good as it builds immunity and an overly sterile environment is not good at all.
  • Check The Nutrition Labels
Even I know what nutritional labels are. No big deal. But what most of us don’t know is to read them whenever we buy anything edible. All we do is fill the trolley with whatever that comes to our hand. Just like we have the evergreen habit of avoiding them, nutritional labels have the evergreen habit of telling us what the food contains. And mind you. They are ruthlessly honest, they give us a clear picture about how good those ‘natural’ or ‘low fat’ foods we get attracted to are.
  • Balanced Diet
Incorporating proteins, minerals, iron, vitamins, calcium, carbs and fat (good fat) in your daily diet is very necessary. Fruits, vegetables, lean meat, poultry, milk, whole grain foods make a balanced diet.
  • Late Night Meals
Having meals on time is as important as having a healthy meal. Having meals at-least a couple of hours before you hit the bed prevent obesity and other severe health complications. Also, late night snacking might result in indigestion which interferes with your sleep.
  • Avoid Pessimistic Thinking
This, by far, is the most poisonous drug ever known to humanity. The irony is that it is self-induced. And the misfortune is that the person who is thinking negative doesn’t know they are doing so. We are so habituated to destructive thinking patterns that rarely we realize what we are doing to ourselves. Developing an optimistic attitude can alter your life in amazing ways. Most of the things around aren’t as bad as they seem to be. It is just your mind playing the dirty trick.
  • Exercise
Exercise is a must, workouts; aerobics, walking or jogging regulates heart rate giving you more energy to work hard through the day. Exercise early in the morning won’t make you feel lazy in the day. It improves blood circulation and releases muscle tension giving you a stronger body and mind. Exercise is an effective way to boost your health and keep your energy flowing at optimum levels. Most people give preference to lame excuses than to regular exercise. Don’t wait till you have the necessary equipment or till you join a gym. Exercise routines as simple as pushups or crunches (which can be performed at home) can go a great way in building health. A study has shown that individuals who never did any exercise lost about seven years of life compared to the ones who did. Now, that isn’t a wise bargain, is it?
  • Don’t Sit Continuously For Long Hours
Whether it is at your home, office or any other place, continuously sitting in one place is not a trivial issue to be ignored. Sitting for long hours without any movement slows metabolism and weakens muscles. Make sure you get up and move around for every couple of hours. Stretch your muscles from time to time. Early to bed and early to rise is always the best way to stay healthy.
  • Practice Yoga
Yoga helps in overall mind and body development. It is a two-in-one medium to keep you healthy both mentally and physically.
  • Avoid Smoking
Smoking ruins your health, sooner or later. Cancer, lung diseases and heart problems all result because of smoking.
  • Control Your Drinks
Alcohol may relax you after a hard day’s work, but it also reduces the number of white blood cells (W.B.C.)fights germs  thereby indirectly weakens the immunity system.
  • Use Less Salt
Reduce the salt intake in your diet, as it may lead to strokes and heart diseases in future.
  • Have Lots Of Fluid
Drink at least 8-9 glasses of water every day. It not only flushes your system but also keeps your skin good and healthy.
  • Proper Sleep
Get a minimum 8 hours sleep because it relaxes your mind and keeps you healthy. The human body is a machine. And just like any machine requires rest and recharging, our bodies also need sufficient amounts of sleep. Most of us, burdened by the monotony of work, tend to sleep less and focus more on our tasks. But the thing is, you can’t really focus if you haven’t had a good night’s sleep. Adequate sleep increases our productivity levels and helps us in getting our tasks done faster. So the next time you plan to skip your sleep in order to complete that important assignment or get done with a crucial task, give it a second thought. You might be giving away too much for too little.

Value your Health, It is precious! All it takes are the above tips to stay healthy!

Thursday, 16 March 2017

How To Maintain A Relationship Without Sex


In our world today people say that it’s so rare to find virgin’s (Ladies especially), and yet other people argue as to if there could be any loving and Intimate relationship without sex.

I know by mentioning that word “intimacy” your brows are raised, yes! Intimacy can be achieved in your relationship without sex just patiently read-on,

To start with what does relationship, love and sex really mean;

RELATIONSHIP:
 Relationship is the connection between two or more people; it’s actually a state of being connected.

LOVE:
Love is a great interest and pleasure in someone or something, it is also a strong feeling of affection.

SEX:
Sex means a classification of Humans or other living things into either of the two main categories (Male and Female) on the basis of their reproductive functions (gender) and SEX also means an activity (sexual activity) involving sexual intercourse, lovemaking, sex act, sexual relations etc.
The kind of sex being referred to here is the sexual intercourse.

Now when you love someone is it possible not to have sex with the person? YES! I say yes.
I know a relationship is definitely not all about sex, but also two people having sex in a “loving relationship” is just a mutual expression of their feeling and to others sex is the essential of their relationship but friend God doesn’t permit sex before marriage.

There are definitely some teens and few adult spinsters who are saving sex for marriage and who are in happy, healthy relationships so you’re definitely not alone. If you are still confused and in doubt as to the possibility of none sexual relationship i tell you it is possible, just see how to below;


6 STEPS ON HOW TO MAINTAIN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT SEX:
    BOTH PARTIES INVOLVED SHOULD HAVE THE FEAR OF GOD: 

    God is love and if a relationship is based on true love then it should be solely based on God. We fear and respect our earthly parents to the extent we can’t have sex in their presence yet because of his abounding mercy we don’t fear the one who is our Father and creator  who sees in the secret what men can’t see. If we could fear God then we would obey him, your body is his sanctuary (temple) keep it holy. He insisted sex is strictly for HUSBAND and WIFE. 


    GET BUSY: 

    As the saying goes “an idle mind is the devil workshop” try to get yourself busy putting off anything sexual from your mind, although the feeling might occur that’s the devils specialty area but avoid & resist it. Avoid watching porn movies or any romantic book/ novels, avoid alcohol yes alcohol, read more of holy books, inspirational and motivational books, play TV games, get busy with your talents and passions, do anything that can make you happy forget about sex.


    AVOID VISITING THEIR HOUSES ALONE: 

    This might seem awkward let’s face it, Most especially for ladies, 95% of intimacy usually take place when a lady visit’s her boyfriend (guy) or spend the night/ weekend there. Even if you are to go, then go with a matured and trusted relative or sibling, I won’t advice friends cause most friends might encourage you against your wish to have sex and don’t always visit regularly.

    COMMUNICATION:
    Communication is an essential pillar of a sweet relationship; you should both be open to each other and joke more often but avoid sexual topics that might arouse you. Appreciation and compliments is only needful even when you don’t see often.

     DON’T GO TO SECLUDED PLACE WITH AN OPPOSITE SEX: 

    Going to a secluded/ quiet/ undisturbed/ lonely/private places with your yet to be married spouse or any other opposite sex could give room to kissing, touching and caressing which may lead to sex. It is said that when two opposite sex are alone in a lonely place there is a third person (satan) which will definitely try to influence them to commit fornication, if you want to see each other even if it’s daily try to meet in open place like restaurants, Movie cinemas or any open place where you can see people can see and people can also see you.

    QUICK MARRIAGE: 



    Getting married on time will not only save you from God’s wrath brought by involvement in pre-marital sex, it will also give you the opportunity to have full time and pleasure with your spouse.


    Be free to share your thoughts if there's anyone i left out kindly comment below.
    Thank you for the long read and i hope we can apply this in our relationships and teach our younger generations too that SEX IS NOT LOVE.

    Thursday, 2 March 2017

    DON'T LIVE IN IGNORANCE !



    The problem with the Body of Christ is ignorance, and the devil loves it when you are ignorant. 


    "Therefore my people are gone into captivity, because they have no knowledge: and their honourable men are famished, and their multitude dried up with thirst.""Isaiah 5:13 (KJV)


    He doesn't care whether you are in church 24/7. Until you understand who you are and what you carry, he is not afraid of you. Ignorance will cheat you out of your right, it will disqualify you and keep you hungry in the midst of plenty. 


    Ignorance of what is available to you will rob you of all that Jesus died for. The fact that you are a believer has set you apart from the world; that was why Jesus said you are in the world but not of the world (John 15:19; John 17:16). Since you are not of the world, you cannot be ruled by the laws that govern the world, you belong to a higher realm. So when they are saying that there is a casting down, you will be saying that there is a lifting. Why? It is because your case is different, but if you remain ignorant, you will suffer the same thing with the world, which is not the will of God for you.


    A whole lot of believers have been robbed of their blessings by reason of ignorance. To underscore the importance of knowledge in our walk with God, Paul prays to the church in Ephesus saying: "... making mention of you in my prayers; ....the eyes of your understanding being enlightened; that ye may know what is the hope of His calling, and what the riches of the glory of His inheritance in the saints, .." (Ephesians 1:16-19 KJV) Ignorance or lack of knowledge will rob you of your colourful destiny. 


    Refuse to be ignorant by studying the word and walking in the light that God has made available to you. Find out what belongs to you and appropriate it and you will see the result in Jesus' name.


    Further reading: Colossians 1:9-14Daily Bible Reading: Morning- Numbers 23-25; Evening- Mark 7:14-37

    Thursday, 16 February 2017

    YOU WILL REIGN HERE ON EARTH




     You are designed and packaged to reign over sickness, over disease, over pains, over agony, over frustration, over discouragement, over intimidation, over fear and over death.

    "And hast made us unto our God kings and priests: and we shall reign on the earth." (Revelation 5:10 KJV)


    The book of Romans 5:17 says: "For if by one man's offence death reigned by one; much more they which receive abundance of grace and of the gift of righteousness shall reign in life by one Jesus Christ."
    There, Paul is telling us what will enable us reign in life here on earth,not when we get to heaven.



     You are probably thinking that it is only in heaven you are going to reign, but the word of God says we are going to reign here on earth. You don't need a car, house, husband or wife in heaven. This is because when you get there you will be preoccupied by one person, Jesus.


    Every eye will be focused on him and beholding his beauty from eternity to eternity. It will never end because every aspect of him is beautiful. That is why the angels keep on saying, holy, holy, holy. You will spend eternity beholding his unending beauty such that you will have no need for a house or gold. In fact, the gold you are wearing here is counterfeit compared to what obtains there. In heaven the streets are paved with gold, not of this earth but that which God himself fashioned.

    Whilst you are still alive, God intends that you reign over the circumstances of your life. You are meant to reign over all negative things. But this is predicated on you receiving the abundance of grace and the gift of righteousness he has given. You have to receive righteousness as a gift. It is not about what you did or didn't do. When you receive it then you can reign.

    Through knowledge shall the just be delivered. Go and reign in all your endeavours in Jesus name, Amen.
    Credits: BISHOP MIKE OKONKWO

    Further Reading: Romans 5:12-21, 1:16-17
    Daily Bible Reading: Morning- Leviticus 19-20; Evening- Matthew 27:51-66

    Wednesday, 8 February 2017

    LET GOD FIX IT FOR YOU


    Brethren, let the specialist do it for you.

    "Faithful is he that calleth you, who also will do it". (1 Thessalonians 5:24 KJV)

    A man was complaining bitterly to God about his life and saying, Lord why are you doing this to me? All these years I have served and committed myself to you and heaven was silent. One day the man came by his window and was looking outside and he saw a bird which came and fluttered its feathers and one of them fell off. When it fell, the bird suddenly flew away. Then God said to the man, go and pick the feather, look for the bird and fix it back. He responded and said how am I going to do that? Where am I going to find the bird? Then God said to him: "So also can you not fix your challenge, leave it in my hands because I specialize in fixing challenges."

      He is faithful and he loves you so much. He will do it! One of the things I have learnt lately is to take my hands off and let God be God. One assurance I am giving you is that you will surely testify. Just as you cannot fix back a feather that fell out of a bird, so you cannot fix anything back into your life. You cannot lay hold if you cannot let go. Keep on serving and looking up to God and he will give you a testimony.

    Look at Jephthah for example, his brothers who did not understand the workings of God threw him out of their father's house because he was the son of a harlot. But when God was through with him, elders had to go and beg him to come back home. Jephthah had to determine how much he was going to be paid in order to be their captain. I declare to you by the authority of heaven, by reason of God's investment in your life, you are going to show up. You are going to manifest! The purpose of God upon your life will be revealed. Your days of frustration are over! You will not end up a minus or a disappointment. 

    You will end up in the place of glory and you will rise from glory to glory.

    Further Reading: Matthew 6:25-33, 1Peter 5:7
    Daily Bible Reading: Morning- Leviticus 4-5; Evening- Matthew 24:29-51

    Monday, 6 February 2017

    WHEN YOU CAN NOT TRACE GOD, TRUST HIM

    Trust in God because he always got your back.


     God works in ways that are mysterious.


     "Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding"(Proverbs 3:5 KJV)


     Sometimes God hides you, so as to make you appear later. When he hides you, don't struggle to come out. Stay hidden because he knows the exact time for you to appear.


     What good would it have been for Joseph to come out before Pharaoh dream't? It was good for Joseph to be hidden in the prison where they believed he was a criminal but in God's realm he was being hidden by God.


    Jephthah was hidden by God, waiting for when the battle will be fierce in Gilead. Meanwhile in Gilead, they thought that Jephthah was already dead because no one believed in him. Though no one believed in him, God knew he was hiding him. And the scripture says in the process of time they heard in Gilead that there was a man called Jephthah and the guy was doing exploits. The news went round and they asked which Jephthah is that? And they were told that it was Jephthah the son of the Gileadite, the same guy they threw away because his mother was a harlot.


    Sometimes it is difficult to trace God in adversity. When that happens just switch on to trust. To trust is to be totally committed to God even when you do not understand. It is saying I am committed even though I do not understand why. Even when you have the power to bring me out yet you leave me in there, but I will trust you. That is what Job meant when he said, though he slays me, yet will I trust him. I know my redeemer lives. When he has tried me I will come forth as gold. All the days of my life will I wait. I don't know when or how but there is something I have settled in my spirit, my change will come. Keep standing! 


    Your story will change.


    Further Reading: Proverb 3:5 - 8, Psalms 91:1 - 16Daily Bible Reading: Morning- Leviticus 1-3; Evening- Matthew 24:1-28

    TAKE AWAY YOUR FOCUS FROM THE DEVIL



      God does not react. It is the devil that reacts.


    "Then Jephthah fled from his brethren, and dwelt in the land of Tob: and there were gathered vain men to Jephthah, and went out with him" (Judges 11:3 KJV)


    Today, I want to let you into a secret you must never forget as long as you live. 

    Anytime you see the devil roaring around you know that the Lord has scored a number for you.


    Why was he after male babies after Moses was born? The reason is because Moses, the deliverer of the Israelite was born and he was looking for him. But God kept him safe right in the camp of the enemy. Why did he kill children two years and below after Jesus the savior of the whole world was given birth to? It was because there was an announcement that a king was already born. Therefore, anytime the devil is roaring around you, don't focus on him, simply find out what God has done that the devil is reacting to.



    It is the same reason the devil was raging in the life of Jephthah. You must understand that Jephthah did not know these things because he did not have the Bible at that time. All he knew was that his brothers suddenly threw him out of the home he had always known. But I love what Jephthah did; he realized that if he became bitter, he would not fulfill the purpose of God. This is where a lot of people miss it. Instead of growing bitter, he looked at what God had deposited in him. The Bible says that in the land of Tob where he fled to, he believed and trusted God and all the vagabonds came to him and he became captain over them.



    "And it came to pass in process of time, that the children of Ammon made war against Israel." (Judges 11:4 KJV) No one was able to lead them in the battle. They then heard that the young man they drove away was doing exploits. I declare to you today that those who want you dead, who said you will never succeed, those who have written you off will hear of you and surrender to you in Jesus name.


    Credits: Bishop Mike Okonkwo.


    Further Reading: 1 Samuel 22:1 - 4, 1 Chronicles 11:10 - 47 Daily Bible Reading: Morning- Exodus 39-40; Evening- Matthew 23:23-39